Please take a look at Articles on self-defense/conflict/violence for introductions to the references found in the bibliography page.

Please take a look at my bibliography if you do not see a proper reference to a post.

Please take a look at my Notable Quotes

Hey, Attention on Deck!

Hey, NOTHING here is PERSONAL, get over it - Teach Me and I will Learn!


When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:


I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me

I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me

I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull

I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death

I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed

I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes

I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados

I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers

The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn


Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung

WARNING, CAVEAT AND NOTE

The postings on this blog are my interpretation of readings, studies and experiences therefore errors and omissions are mine and mine alone. The content surrounding the extracts of books, see bibliography on this blog site, are also mine and mine alone therefore errors and omissions are also mine and mine alone and therefore why I highly recommended one read, study, research and fact find the material for clarity. My effort here is self-clarity toward a fuller understanding of the subject matter. See the bibliography for information on the books. Please make note that this article/post is my personal analysis of the subject and the information used was chosen or picked by me. It is not an analysis piece because it lacks complete and comprehensive research, it was not adequately and completely investigated and it is not balanced, i.e., it is my personal view without the views of others including subject experts, etc. Look at this as “Infotainment rather then expert research.” This is an opinion/editorial article/post meant to persuade the reader to think, decide and accept or reject my premise. It is an attempt to cause change or reinforce attitudes, beliefs and values as they apply to martial arts and/or self-defense. It is merely a commentary on the subject in the particular article presented.


Note: I will endevor to provide a bibliography and italicize any direct quotes from the materials I use for this blog. If there are mistakes, errors, and/or omissions, I take full responsibility for them as they are mine and mine alone. If you find any mistakes, errors, and/or omissions please comment and let me know along with the correct information and/or sources.



“What you are reading right now is a blog. It’s written and posted by me, because I want to. I get no financial remuneration for writing it. I don’t have to meet anyone’s criteria in order to post it. Not only I don’t have an employer or publisher, but I’m not even constrained by having to please an audience. If people won’t like it, they won’t read it, but I won’t lose anything by it. Provided I don’t break any laws (libel, incitement to violence, etc.), I can post whatever I want. This means that I can write openly and honestly, however controversial my opinions may be. It also means that I could write total bullshit; there is no quality control. I could be biased. I could be insane. I could be trolling. … not all sources are equivalent, and all sources have their pros and cons. These needs to be taken into account when evaluating information, and all information should be evaluated. - God’s Bastard, Sourcing Sources (this applies to this and other blogs by me as well; if you follow the idea's, advice or information you are on your own, don't come crying to me, it is all on you do do the work to make sure it works for you!)



“You should prepare yourself to dedicate at least five or six years to your training and practice to understand the philosophy and physiokinetics of martial arts and karate so that you can understand the true spirit of everything and dedicate your mind, body and spirit to the discipline of the art.” - cejames (note: you are on your own, make sure you get expert hands-on guidance in all things martial and self-defense)



“All I say is by way of discourse, and nothing by way of advice. I should not speak so boldly if it were my due to be believed.” - Montaigne


I am not a leading authority on any one discipline that I write about and teach, it is my hope and wish that with all the subjects I have studied it provides me an advantage point that I offer in as clear and cohesive writings as possible in introducing the matters in my materials. I hope to serve as one who inspires direction in the practitioner so they can go on to discover greater teachers and professionals that will build on this fundamental foundation. Find the authorities and synthesize a wholehearted and holistic concept, perception and belief that will not drive your practices but rather inspire them to evolve, grow and prosper. My efforts are born of those who are more experienced and knowledgable than I. I hope you find that path! See the bibliography I provide for an initial list of experts, professionals and masters of the subjects.

Responding vs. Reacting

Ōtō to han'nō [応答と反応] - CEJames & Alfonz Ingram


In self-defense, the difference between responding and reacting is crucial. A reaction is often impulsive, emotion-driven, and uncalculated, while a response is intentional, strategic, and rooted in awareness. Understanding this distinction can mean the difference between escalating a situation and effectively de-escalating or neutralizing a threat.


1. Defining the Difference

ReactingAn automatic, emotional, and often fear-based action without conscious thought.

RespondingA deliberate, controlled, and situationally aware action based on training, assessment, and experience.


A reaction is usually fast but lacks strategic consideration, whereas a response may take a fraction longer but is more effective in self-defense.


Example

If someone aggressively shoves you, a reaction might be to shove back without thinking, escalating the conflict.

A response could be stepping back, assessing their intent, and preparing to either de-escalate verbally or physically defend yourself if necessary.


2. The Role of Awareness and Emotional Regulation

Mushin (無心, No-Mind): In martial arts, a calm mind (Mushin no Shin) allows one to respond appropriately rather than react emotionally.

Zanshin (残心, Awareness/Readiness): Staying alert and reading the situation prevents knee-jerk reactions and enables an effective response.

Seishin Tanren (精神鍛錬, Mental Training): Developing emotional control under stress ensures measured responses rather than fear-based reactions.


Scientific Backing

The amygdala hijack (Goleman, 1995) explains how fear and adrenaline can override rational decision-making, leading to reactive rather than responsive behavior.

Neurological studies show that trained individuals have increased prefrontal cortex activation in high-stress situations, allowing for better decision-making (Hancock & Szalma, 2008).


3. Training for Responses Instead of Reactions


Training should focus on stress inoculation, decision-making under pressure, and controlled aggression.


Key Methods

1. Scenario-Based Training

Practicing self-defense in realistic settings conditions the brain to make calculated responses rather than flinch-based reactions.

2. Breath Control (Ibuki Breathing)

Deliberate breathing calms the nervous system, preventing panic-driven reactions.

3. Verbal Self-Defense (Aikido of Communication, Thompson, 2002)

Using words strategically can prevent escalation and create openings for escape or counteraction.

4. Kata and Bunkai (Application Training)

Embedded decision-making training within forms reinforces strategic responses rather than habitual reactions.

5. Slow Training (Tai Chi, Seijaku, or Soft Sparring)

Helps cultivate control over movements and decision-making under stress.


4. Legal and Ethical Considerations


Proportionality in Self-Defense Law: Reacting with excessive force can lead to legal consequences, while a trained response aligns with imminence and proportionality principles.

De-Escalation Before Engagement: Many laws (e.g., U.S. self-defense statutes) emphasize avoiding unnecessary force.


5. Martial Arts Philosophical Perspectives


“Be like water” (Bruce Lee): Adapt to the situation rather than acting out of rigidity or fear.

Karate ni sente nashi (空手に先手なし, There is no first attack in Karate): Control and discipline prevent reactive violence.

Wu Wei (無為, Effortless Action): Responding with precision rather than reacting with force.


Conclusion


Mastering the art of responding rather than reacting in self-defense requires training in awareness, emotional regulation, and strategic decision-making. A response is rooted in skill and mindfulness, while a reaction is often a product of fear and lack of control. Developing this distinction enhances survival, effectiveness, and legal protection in real-world encounters.


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