Please take a look at Articles on self-defense/conflict/violence for introductions to the references found in the bibliography page.

Please take a look at my bibliography if you do not see a proper reference to a post.

Please take a look at my Notable Quotes

Hey, Attention on Deck!

Hey, NOTHING here is PERSONAL, get over it - Teach Me and I will Learn!


When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:


I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me

I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me

I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull

I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death

I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed

I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes

I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados

I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers

The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn


Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung

WARNING, CAVEAT AND NOTE

The postings on this blog are my interpretation of readings, studies and experiences therefore errors and omissions are mine and mine alone. The content surrounding the extracts of books, see bibliography on this blog site, are also mine and mine alone therefore errors and omissions are also mine and mine alone and therefore why I highly recommended one read, study, research and fact find the material for clarity. My effort here is self-clarity toward a fuller understanding of the subject matter. See the bibliography for information on the books. Please make note that this article/post is my personal analysis of the subject and the information used was chosen or picked by me. It is not an analysis piece because it lacks complete and comprehensive research, it was not adequately and completely investigated and it is not balanced, i.e., it is my personal view without the views of others including subject experts, etc. Look at this as “Infotainment rather then expert research.” This is an opinion/editorial article/post meant to persuade the reader to think, decide and accept or reject my premise. It is an attempt to cause change or reinforce attitudes, beliefs and values as they apply to martial arts and/or self-defense. It is merely a commentary on the subject in the particular article presented.


Note: I will endevor to provide a bibliography and italicize any direct quotes from the materials I use for this blog. If there are mistakes, errors, and/or omissions, I take full responsibility for them as they are mine and mine alone. If you find any mistakes, errors, and/or omissions please comment and let me know along with the correct information and/or sources.



“What you are reading right now is a blog. It’s written and posted by me, because I want to. I get no financial remuneration for writing it. I don’t have to meet anyone’s criteria in order to post it. Not only I don’t have an employer or publisher, but I’m not even constrained by having to please an audience. If people won’t like it, they won’t read it, but I won’t lose anything by it. Provided I don’t break any laws (libel, incitement to violence, etc.), I can post whatever I want. This means that I can write openly and honestly, however controversial my opinions may be. It also means that I could write total bullshit; there is no quality control. I could be biased. I could be insane. I could be trolling. … not all sources are equivalent, and all sources have their pros and cons. These needs to be taken into account when evaluating information, and all information should be evaluated. - God’s Bastard, Sourcing Sources (this applies to this and other blogs by me as well; if you follow the idea's, advice or information you are on your own, don't come crying to me, it is all on you do do the work to make sure it works for you!)



“You should prepare yourself to dedicate at least five or six years to your training and practice to understand the philosophy and physiokinetics of martial arts and karate so that you can understand the true spirit of everything and dedicate your mind, body and spirit to the discipline of the art.” - cejames (note: you are on your own, make sure you get expert hands-on guidance in all things martial and self-defense)



“All I say is by way of discourse, and nothing by way of advice. I should not speak so boldly if it were my due to be believed.” - Montaigne


I am not a leading authority on any one discipline that I write about and teach, it is my hope and wish that with all the subjects I have studied it provides me an advantage point that I offer in as clear and cohesive writings as possible in introducing the matters in my materials. I hope to serve as one who inspires direction in the practitioner so they can go on to discover greater teachers and professionals that will build on this fundamental foundation. Find the authorities and synthesize a wholehearted and holistic concept, perception and belief that will not drive your practices but rather inspire them to evolve, grow and prosper. My efforts are born of those who are more experienced and knowledgable than I. I hope you find that path! See the bibliography I provide for an initial list of experts, professionals and masters of the subjects.

Catchphrase

Blog Article/Post Caveat (Read First Please: Click the Link)

There is an exercise motto that has permeated all sorts of physical endeavors, like various sport and exercise programs or systems and it is, "No pain, no gain." I got a bit curious about it due to another article, post really, of a martial practitioner who wrote about pain, falling, losing, etc.

Where did it come from, you probably already know and for the few who don't, it came from then exercise guru Jane Fonda. She started using it in her aerobic workout video's in 1982, she would say to catchphrases, first is the no pain, no gain then the second is, "Feel the burn." 

Then I began to contemplate these to come to this conclusion, "It depends on the type of pain you are experiencing and it depends on what is causing that burn." No one has really explained about the pain or the burn and how that either is beneficial or not. It matters!

First off, about pain, yes pain is a good teacher because from the moment we are born to even every day life today those things and situations and words we encounter that cause us pain, physical and/or psychological in nature, tend to provide us lessons that we are to learn from, i.e., how to not do what we did, how to not say what we said and how not to allow either physical or psychological weapons to cause us pain. Herein lies the lessons!

Yes, you can imagine that pain has many sides to it and how that pain is triggered and what caused it and how it effects you especially as to health and fitness and longevity matters. A person is able to experience some pains that teach and don’t result in damage to health and fitness. Good pain if you will while bad pain is often about grave harm to either the body or the mind, or worse yet, both. 

When I first read the inspiration to write about such catch phrases it was said, “Sometimes you must: hurt in order to know; fall in order to grow; lose in order to gain because most of life’s greatest lessons are learned through pain.” I can agree with it on one level and totally disagree on another. 

I can never find an instance in training and practice where you MUST hurt, fall, lose and yet in experiences you will not grow and evolve without the POSSIBILITY of getting hurt, falling down either physically and/or psychologically, and losing something or other in a given situation. In short, such catchphrases need a lot of words and concepts to provide an understanding simply because students don’t yet have a concept in their regard until it is explained, understood and inspiring toward further research and study. Ain’t that the goal of a good catchphrase, meme, aphorism and/or quote? 

If you think of it, most of the best lessons learned are so because the person learning had a huge amount of fun during the process in training, practice or application(s). Fun is the best teaching tool one can find and you can imagine that fun while something outside the fun arena tends to hinder it as a lesson because humans tend to avoid non-fun stuff, we don’t want to avoid lessons just because they cause pain without the fun-factor. The more you have fun, the more you learn. The more you learn, the less pain involved, the more you learn.

If you have fun, then you retain the lesson even when pain, loss, and falling, metaphorically speaking or other, happens. Even the very intensity of pain is less when the mind is having fun. I can only guess that if you can make it fun somehow even a fight or a self-protection situation can lesson the pains and arrows of that violent happening. Something to think about.

In the beginning, as you know, students are often starting with a blank slate and as you can imagine our responsibility is to fill in that slate with words, actions, deeds and a lot of fun. Sooner or later we realize that making it fun is not just great for our young adults in the dojo, it is also great for our adults too. 

Bibliography (Click the link)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_pain,_no_gain

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