Please take a look at Articles on self-defense/conflict/violence for introductions to the references found in the bibliography page.

Please take a look at my bibliography if you do not see a proper reference to a post.

Please take a look at my Notable Quotes

Hey, Attention on Deck!

Hey, NOTHING here is PERSONAL, get over it - Teach Me and I will Learn!


When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:


I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me

I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me

I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull

I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death

I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed

I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes

I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados

I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers

The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn


Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung

WARNING, CAVEAT AND NOTE

The postings on this blog are my interpretation of readings, studies and experiences therefore errors and omissions are mine and mine alone. The content surrounding the extracts of books, see bibliography on this blog site, are also mine and mine alone therefore errors and omissions are also mine and mine alone and therefore why I highly recommended one read, study, research and fact find the material for clarity. My effort here is self-clarity toward a fuller understanding of the subject matter. See the bibliography for information on the books. Please make note that this article/post is my personal analysis of the subject and the information used was chosen or picked by me. It is not an analysis piece because it lacks complete and comprehensive research, it was not adequately and completely investigated and it is not balanced, i.e., it is my personal view without the views of others including subject experts, etc. Look at this as “Infotainment rather then expert research.” This is an opinion/editorial article/post meant to persuade the reader to think, decide and accept or reject my premise. It is an attempt to cause change or reinforce attitudes, beliefs and values as they apply to martial arts and/or self-defense. It is merely a commentary on the subject in the particular article presented.


Note: I will endevor to provide a bibliography and italicize any direct quotes from the materials I use for this blog. If there are mistakes, errors, and/or omissions, I take full responsibility for them as they are mine and mine alone. If you find any mistakes, errors, and/or omissions please comment and let me know along with the correct information and/or sources.



“What you are reading right now is a blog. It’s written and posted by me, because I want to. I get no financial remuneration for writing it. I don’t have to meet anyone’s criteria in order to post it. Not only I don’t have an employer or publisher, but I’m not even constrained by having to please an audience. If people won’t like it, they won’t read it, but I won’t lose anything by it. Provided I don’t break any laws (libel, incitement to violence, etc.), I can post whatever I want. This means that I can write openly and honestly, however controversial my opinions may be. It also means that I could write total bullshit; there is no quality control. I could be biased. I could be insane. I could be trolling. … not all sources are equivalent, and all sources have their pros and cons. These needs to be taken into account when evaluating information, and all information should be evaluated. - God’s Bastard, Sourcing Sources (this applies to this and other blogs by me as well; if you follow the idea's, advice or information you are on your own, don't come crying to me, it is all on you do do the work to make sure it works for you!)



“You should prepare yourself to dedicate at least five or six years to your training and practice to understand the philosophy and physiokinetics of martial arts and karate so that you can understand the true spirit of everything and dedicate your mind, body and spirit to the discipline of the art.” - cejames (note: you are on your own, make sure you get expert hands-on guidance in all things martial and self-defense)



“All I say is by way of discourse, and nothing by way of advice. I should not speak so boldly if it were my due to be believed.” - Montaigne


I am not a leading authority on any one discipline that I write about and teach, it is my hope and wish that with all the subjects I have studied it provides me an advantage point that I offer in as clear and cohesive writings as possible in introducing the matters in my materials. I hope to serve as one who inspires direction in the practitioner so they can go on to discover greater teachers and professionals that will build on this fundamental foundation. Find the authorities and synthesize a wholehearted and holistic concept, perception and belief that will not drive your practices but rather inspire them to evolve, grow and prosper. My efforts are born of those who are more experienced and knowledgable than I. I hope you find that path! See the bibliography I provide for an initial list of experts, professionals and masters of the subjects.

Communications in Voice and Written Forms for Teaching and Self-Protection

Blog Article/Post Caveat (Read First Please: Click the Link)

Read these sentences aloud (emphasis on bold/italicized words):
  • I never said she stole my money.
  • I never said she stole my money.
  • I never said she stole my money.
Emphasizing any one of the words over the others makes the string of words mean something completely different. "Pitch change" — the vocal quality we use to emphasize words — is a crucial part of human communication, whether spoken or sung.

I also wonder how this can be accomplished in the written word as well. I suspect that would be done using bold, italicized or possibly underlining. “Historically, this has been italics (bold emphasis mine), or, underlining in handwritten documents.”

In another reference it is said, “Stick to italics or underlining in academic writing. In academic writing or professional writing, italics and underlining are usually the preferred means of emphasis. Opt for bold text for key information. Use exclamations points in informal or creative writing.”

Since this is about martial disciplines and karate for self-protection where communications are necessary to avoid escalation of someone who may go violent or become aggressive leading to violence. So one can, “In writing and speech, the emphasis is the repetition of key words and phrases or the careful arrangement of words to give them special weight and prominence. The most emphatic spot in a sentence is usually the end.”

You see, just having the correct terms and phrases are not enough to communicate properly to possible adversaries, to groups that are agitated or to the first responders who question things when self-protection is used to protect and defend. People who are taking self-protection courses that involve martial disciplines and karate would benefit a great deal to have courses not just on communications for articulation, assuming the communications courses have this covered already, but how to use the proper terms and phrases with emphasis that influences the recipients toward accepting what it is they have to say. 

When karate teaches about voids, those spaces and spacing traits, it also involves communications where not just the pitch counts but also body language, emphasis on facial expressions, cadence, tempo, etc., all count toward convincing someone listening, be they the target or others in witness, that what you have said is valid especially toward your goals of defending your self-defense defense. 

For instance, “(starts the idea the next is both emphasis and a quote possible of another source) Self-defense is not just about defending yourself and others, BUT a legal defense to prove you were legally within the law.”

Now, I have overdone it a bit to demonstrate but use your voice as to pitch, inflection, cadence and tempo to emphasis the important of those words marked accordingly. Experiment a bit so you can achieve those traits dependent on the italics, bold, or underlining to see how they sound. Do this with students and teachers so all parties can provide comments that help to learn just how this works. Oh, and a ... pause … with words of emphasis is also another way to emphasize when speaking as well, just Google famous speeches such as those given by President Ronald Reagan, a famous and professional speaker, to get how this works. 

Look at this as learning the compliance influence principles to become a master persuader! See, how that last two words is emphasized in italics, bold and a bold red color with the following exclamation mark, pretty cool huh? Now, how would you express that when verbally teaching students how to use speech to get others to comply with what you want. 

The idea in writing is to pull one’s eyes and mind toward the words you want to use in emphasis for compliance so when you speak that is your goal, to pull others to your words, voice, emotional feeling, etc., to convey the importance of what message you wish to convey. Pretty IMPORTANT isn’t IT? Draw the EYE and EAR to the message, do it NOW!

p.s. Color in the written word does have its psychological influential effect too!


Source/Inspiration: https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2018/07/27/632298300/how-the-brain-helps-you-sing-or-say-what-you-mean

Bibliography (Click the link)

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