Please take a look at Articles on self-defense/conflict/violence for introductions to the references found in the bibliography page.

Please take a look at my bibliography if you do not see a proper reference to a post.

Please take a look at my Notable Quotes

Hey, Attention on Deck!

Hey, NOTHING here is PERSONAL, get over it - Teach Me and I will Learn!


When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:


I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me

I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me

I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull

I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death

I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed

I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes

I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados

I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers

The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn


Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung

WARNING, CAVEAT AND NOTE

The postings on this blog are my interpretation of readings, studies and experiences therefore errors and omissions are mine and mine alone. The content surrounding the extracts of books, see bibliography on this blog site, are also mine and mine alone therefore errors and omissions are also mine and mine alone and therefore why I highly recommended one read, study, research and fact find the material for clarity. My effort here is self-clarity toward a fuller understanding of the subject matter. See the bibliography for information on the books. Please make note that this article/post is my personal analysis of the subject and the information used was chosen or picked by me. It is not an analysis piece because it lacks complete and comprehensive research, it was not adequately and completely investigated and it is not balanced, i.e., it is my personal view without the views of others including subject experts, etc. Look at this as “Infotainment rather then expert research.” This is an opinion/editorial article/post meant to persuade the reader to think, decide and accept or reject my premise. It is an attempt to cause change or reinforce attitudes, beliefs and values as they apply to martial arts and/or self-defense. It is merely a commentary on the subject in the particular article presented.


Note: I will endevor to provide a bibliography and italicize any direct quotes from the materials I use for this blog. If there are mistakes, errors, and/or omissions, I take full responsibility for them as they are mine and mine alone. If you find any mistakes, errors, and/or omissions please comment and let me know along with the correct information and/or sources.



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“You should prepare yourself to dedicate at least five or six years to your training and practice to understand the philosophy and physiokinetics of martial arts and karate so that you can understand the true spirit of everything and dedicate your mind, body and spirit to the discipline of the art.” - cejames



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Denial


Denial, a instinctual reaction to stressful events of life. When confronted by stresses that seem beyond our capability to control or that instill a sense of great fear and trepidation we instinctually enter a state of denial. This is a coping mechanism. It is needed so that we humans can survive the really big events that would trigger the fear of life instinct. Our minds want to block out such stressful and fearful things and this applies to violence, that violence that goes beyond the social monkey dance - true predatory violence. 

We tend to encounter things and when they really trigger the instincts toward preservation we automatically enter a world of denial. You see this sometimes when a person is attacked and the drop down into a fetal type position hoping it will go away without the person dying. 

In very volatile positions we tend to quickly refocus on more simple tasks and/or daily trivialities. Even intellectuals will display an instinctual tendency toward denial. We see this in martial arts as well, i.e. persons who come to believe in specifics as associated with their system/style and leadership within the system/style. When confronted with the discomfort of being wrong, the insist to remain with the comfort of that questionable belief. 

In self-defense we tend to shift our focus away from those things that cause us the greatest stress, fear and trepidations and focus on the easier, simpler and comfortable ways or methods. 

It has been said that a warrior in denial is the ultimate manifestation of hubris and pride. No person is more prideful than one who believes themselves immune to the dangers of violence in the world. When we thing to ourselves, "it can't happen to me," we are entering the human instinctual model of denial.

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