Please take a look at Articles on self-defense/conflict/violence for introductions to the references found in the bibliography page.

Please take a look at my bibliography if you do not see a proper reference to a post.

Please take a look at my Notable Quotes

Hey, Attention on Deck!

Hey, NOTHING here is PERSONAL, get over it - Teach Me and I will Learn!


When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:


I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me

I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me

I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull

I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death

I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed

I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes

I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados

I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers

The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn


Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung

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The postings on this blog are my interpretation of readings, studies and experiences therefore errors and omissions are mine and mine alone. The content surrounding the extracts of books, see bibliography on this blog site, are also mine and mine alone therefore errors and omissions are also mine and mine alone and therefore why I highly recommended one read, study, research and fact find the material for clarity. My effort here is self-clarity toward a fuller understanding of the subject matter. See the bibliography for information on the books. Please make note that this article/post is my personal analysis of the subject and the information used was chosen or picked by me. It is not an analysis piece because it lacks complete and comprehensive research, it was not adequately and completely investigated and it is not balanced, i.e., it is my personal view without the views of others including subject experts, etc. Look at this as “Infotainment rather then expert research.” This is an opinion/editorial article/post meant to persuade the reader to think, decide and accept or reject my premise. It is an attempt to cause change or reinforce attitudes, beliefs and values as they apply to martial arts and/or self-defense. It is merely a commentary on the subject in the particular article presented.


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Perceptions Matter

What we do and say are often perceived by others in a way that is driven by many perceptions, i.e. the time and place; the cultures and beliefs of the observers; the environment in which the group or person lives, etc. We have little control over that end of the spectrum.

The other end of the spectrum is ours and ours alone. Many factors project things in accordance to our perceptions, beliefs and culture that are then analyzed and perceived as stated above.

How we want others to perceive us is a limited ability and therefore important to consider especially in a martial arts self-defense model. Our bodies as to body language projects many things. It can project "victim" or it can project "self-disciplined and self-confidence" or it can project "don't mess with me I am dangerous" or it can project "violent person is challenging others to dare and try me."

Look to the military bearing that would project capable, disciplined and confident. Add in the appropriate training and practice and you have a formidable person who exudes an aura that is not often challenged. Marines project an aura that speaks to the perceptions of the adversaries as "devil dogs, jar-heads, formidable.

Consider not what you can do but what you project and work that to reduce the chances someone would see you as a target or a victim. Learn how to project body language then learn how to project that body language with what you say and how you say it - it ties together, yin-yang thing.

I have observed and read how some folks communicate that sometimes says "ego and pride." Ego I have some concerns but pride is a means by which folks end up in altercations, conflicts or fights.

As martial artists what we might project can be perceived as defensive or offense, aggressive or protective and possible violent or non-violent in nature. Do we train others in the training hall about such things. If you teach the art of avoidance and deescalation then it is there or should be. I call it martial lessons in people skills.

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