When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:
I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me
I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me
I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull
I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death
I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed
I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes
I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados
I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers
The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn
Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung
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“All I say is by way of discourse, and nothing by way of advice. I should not speak so boldly if it were my due to be believed.” - Montaigne
In a karate-jutsu sense the word "ma" is used in "ma-ai." Ma-ai (mah-eye) in the jutsu sense is distancing; the distance/time that separates two opponents, allowing them to judge the overall timing and distance necessary for each to carry out there intentions; The distance when engagement commences; as the ma-ai is shortened to courage and skill increases.
Ma-ai as is "Ma" is that which must be taught, trained and practiced until it becomes an integral, instinctive, part of the arsenal enacted in a time of crises. Ma itself is that which the samurai of the feudal era in Japan culled from the practice of Zen Buddhism. Ma as to empty silence for the samurai came from the training that to remain silent was better than speaking. Silence was considered far more powerful than words for it too gave moments for parties to define and understand real intentions. The practice of silence was called "mokusatsu (moh-kuu-sot-sue), which is translated as "killing with silence."
Sometimes ma-ai is used in the context that whomever controls the distance controls the fight. It is that distance that one optimizes in their favor to conquer the attacker. It reminds me of line from the fundamentals of martial systems, "lengthening the line." Both allude to the control of distance where one is actual space, distance or interval between your physical presence and that of your attacker. The other is that space, distance or interval lengthened as to your skills and proficiency in direct relation to the person who attacks you.
If you also take into consideration other factors such as the size of each person as it might relate to my ma-ai being different from an attacker who may be shorter, taller, etc. which also relates to the length and distance one can cover with their legs and arms to reach a vital point, etc. Even if both of us is at the constant distance of one foot or three feet or six feet those differences provide some differences in regards to ma-ai which we must control to effectively deploy our arsenal, our hands, feet, etc.
I would also add that ma-ai is that distance between conversation, argument and blows. The way one uses silence, a lack of words, can achieve greater avoidance than opening the mouth and allowing the words, often guided by the monkey, to achieve deflection or aggression and blows. If my lack of words and my body language through silence allows an aggressor the same interval, space and time to let of steam it could result in deescalation, deflation and a peaceful, relatively, resolution to a hot situation.
Lets not forget two more factors in ma-ai, timing and speed, those things that either shorten or lengthen your line thus changing the dynamics of your ma-ai. This also can relate to the explanation of the fundamental principles of martial system, i.e. economic motion whereby your tension and other mechanics of the body and mind determine the speed and your timing. Silence, ma, or the empty space relates to the condition of the mind. Is it fogged up and restricted by thoughts, thoughts of "am I going to die now" or "can I really beat this guy" and thereby causing stress resulting in muscular tension and slower speed of hands and feet along with a slow and sluggish mind.
Can one find space, ma, in the defenses of the opponent? Can the opponent find space in mine and how can either one be exploited which changes similar to the intervals, spaces and emptiness one considers as to physical distancing, etc.?
I find that in most instances when someone attempts to explain ma or ma-ai they tend to be stuck on that distance between them and the opponent. They tend to make assumptions the drive defense and counter offense. When it does not work sometimes they also assume it is that something other than what is truly behind the missed opportunity and that is training and practice to know, understand and apply all these different principles as well as the other principles that support and change the ones in this post, ma (Mah) and ma-ai (Mah-ah-ee).
p.s. reading an article on ma-ai I finally came to realize the true value of kobudo. The various weaponry with the varying lengths allow one to switch between various ma-ai as dictated by the weapon and its length when coupled/added to the more static ma-ai dictated by the individual body types and sizes. The big issue here is safely drilling with another person while utilizing those various weapons. Interesting to say the least and enlightening.
p.s.s. then again, in most self-protective situations the ma-ai is in your face, smell the bad breath and body oder, distance that weapons just won't help you with judging ma-ai ..... then again, it is still good, solid training.