Please take a look at Articles on self-defense/conflict/violence for introductions to the references found in the bibliography page.

Please take a look at my bibliography if you do not see a proper reference to a post.

Please take a look at my Notable Quotes

Hey, Attention on Deck!

Hey, NOTHING here is PERSONAL, get over it - Teach Me and I will Learn!

When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:

I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me

I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me

I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull

I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death

I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed

I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes

I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados

I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers

The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn

Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung


The postings on this blog are my interpretation of readings, studies and experiences therefore errors and omissions are mine and mine alone. The content surrounding the extracts of books, see bibliography on this blog site, are also mine and mine alone therefore errors and omissions are also mine and mine alone and therefore why I highly recommended one read, study, research and fact find the material for clarity. My effort here is self-clarity toward a fuller understanding of the subject matter. See the bibliography for information on the books. Please make note that this article/post is my personal analysis of the subject and the information used was chosen or picked by me. It is not an analysis piece because it lacks complete and comprehensive research, it was not adequately and completely investigated and it is not balanced, i.e., it is my personal view without the views of others including subject experts, etc. Look at this as “Infotainment rather then expert research.” This is an opinion/editorial article/post meant to persuade the reader to think, decide and accept or reject my premise. It is an attempt to cause change or reinforce attitudes, beliefs and values as they apply to martial arts and/or self-defense. It is merely a commentary on the subject in the particular article presented.

Note: I will endevor to provide a bibliography and italicize any direct quotes from the materials I use for this blog. If there are mistakes, errors, and/or omissions, I take full responsibility for them as they are mine and mine alone. If you find any mistakes, errors, and/or omissions please comment and let me know along with the correct information and/or sources.

“What you are reading right now is a blog. It’s written and posted by me, because I want to. I get no financial remuneration for writing it. I don’t have to meet anyone’s criteria in order to post it. Not only I don’t have an employer or publisher, but I’m not even constrained by having to please an audience. If people won’t like it, they won’t read it, but I won’t lose anything by it. Provided I don’t break any laws (libel, incitement to violence, etc.), I can post whatever I want. This means that I can write openly and honestly, however controversial my opinions may be. It also means that I could write total bullshit; there is no quality control. I could be biased. I could be insane. I could be trolling. … not all sources are equivalent, and all sources have their pros and cons. These needs to be taken into account when evaluating information, and all information should be evaluated. - God’s Bastard, Sourcing Sources (this applies to this and other blogs by me as well; if you follow the idea's, advice or information you are on your own, don't come crying to me, it is all on you do do the work to make sure it works for you!)

“You should prepare yourself to dedicate at least five or six years to your training and practice to understand the philosophy and physiokinetics of martial arts and karate so that you can understand the true spirit of everything and dedicate your mind, body and spirit to the discipline of the art.” - cejames (note: you are on your own, make sure you get expert hands-on guidance in all things martial and self-defense)

“All I say is by way of discourse, and nothing by way of advice. I should not speak so boldly if it were my due to be believed.” - Montaigne

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The Newness Fades - Critical Crossroads

Anyone who takes the martial arts seriously and has lasted beyond the first crossroads of that path, the coveted shodan black belt crossroads, knows that there are many crossroads in this chosen discipline. It is a microcosm teaching in the dojo that many will recognize in our lives. To me the dojo encounter lets me see, hear and feel the event and allows me to "choose" how I will handle it. This mental training then allows the mind to draw on it to respond to those life events that cause us pause and result in traveling down one or another of life's paths. This is good .... but sometimes the path may deviate drastically away from a more beneficial way and this is where the rubber meets the road.

Often, as those who have endured over time know, we lose promising budo-ka at the first black belt. The newness, excitement and feeling of accomplishment fades into the background. When this occurs often the "what-if monkey" or the "Where to I go monkey" jumps into the driver seat and tries to tell the fledgling black belt that they are done here and need to move on to some other gratifying thrill seeking type way. Resist that and seek out more, shugyo is also here as to austere training because this is your moment. That one defining moment of many moments that will change your life. It is up to you, persevere-endure-remain steadfast, and you can decide. Decide not in the moment of indecision but contemplate it, mull it over and give it time to settle and find a home deep down where it really counts.

Remember it is not something that comes instantaneously. It is not something that will thrill you, give you excitement in the moment and be instantaneously gratifying ... that takes time and there are no shortcuts here. Remain steady, on course and with full wind in your sails no matter the condition of the weather, seas or your heart.

In the end, if you persevere, take the time and find your true way deep down inside you - only you, only you can answer the questions - and no matter the direction you go you can hang your hat on the fact you didn't do things haphazardly and without due considerations. Go forward young "dan-sha" and enjoy the fruits of you labor.

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