When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:
I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me
I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me
I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull
I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death
I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed
I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes
I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados
I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers
The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn
Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung
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“You should prepare yourself to dedicate at least five or six years to your training and practice to understand the philosophy and physiokinetics of martial arts and karate so that you can understand the true spirit of everything and dedicate your mind, body and spirit to the discipline of the art.” - cejames (note: you are on your own, make sure you get expert hands-on guidance in all things martial and self-defense)
“All I say is by way of discourse, and nothing by way of advice. I should not speak so boldly if it were my due to be believed.” - Montaigne
Truthfully, just because I have practiced for 35 years DOES NOT MEAN that I practiced correctly. It does not mean that I am good and it does not mean that I have a high rank. It sounds impressive maybe but really?
I hear of folks professing that they have multiple black belts in multiple systems. Sounds impressive. Is it really? I have walked by a local dojo in my town and observed many trophies and many accolades in writing on the walls with pictures. Impressive isn't it? Is it really?
What is impressive regardless is anyone who follows something over a long haul. In that light my statement of 35 years is impressive but it does not mean anything more than I am persistent, diligent, and highly motivated toward my system. It does NOT mean I can fight, defend, instruct, etc.! If you had been under my tutelage for all 35 years and knew me and my training personally you might be able to say I can do this or that but that is still subjective.
I can post with the best of them. I can post stuff that sounds correct and applicable but it does not mean that I am capable of applying it. There is only one way anyone can determine that and that is to train and practice side by side with me for a considerable period of time. I can impress the dickens out of someone with one or two visits but does that really mean anything and is it really impressive?
I can look good doing kata and you may be impressed yet can I do anything else? Impressions and impressive actions and deeds are subjective for if I were impressive to you the next guy might say, not impressed.
It use to be that a person said he was a black belt that it WAS impressive. Today, the way McDojo's and so many other systems push out black belts that when someone professes to be one I am not impressed one bit but will get that way if they can get out on the dojo floor and demonstrate to my idea of black belt over a period of time, that then impresses me.
Is being impressive or conveying an impressive thing really impressive or just posturing to be special and god like in the eyes of the uninitiated, i.e. an ego trip. If I say I am a certified expert instructor would you be impressed or would it impress you more to have experienced my instruction and come away satisfied with what you learned?
We humans are easily impressed.