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When you begin to feel like you are a tough guy, a warrior, a master of the martial arts or that you have lived a tough life, just take a moment and get some perspective with the following:
I've stopped knives that were coming to disembowel me
I've clawed for my gun while bullets ripped past me
I've dodged as someone tried to put an ax in my skull
I've fought screaming steel and left rubber on the road to avoid death
I've clawed broken glass out of my body after their opening attack failed
I've spit blood and body parts and broke strangle holds before gouging eyes
I've charged into fires, fought through blizzards and run from tornados
I've survived being hunted by gangs, killers and contract killers
The streets were my home, I hunted in the night and was hunted in turn
Please don't brag to me that you're a survivor because someone hit you. And don't tell me how 'tough' you are because of your training. As much as I've been through I know people who have survived much, much worse. - Marc MacYoung
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“All I say is by way of discourse, and nothing by way of advice. I should not speak so boldly if it were my due to be believed.” - Montaigne
I am not a leading authority on any one discipline that I write about and teach, it is my hope and wish that with all the subjects I have studied it provides me an advantage point that I offer in as clear and cohesive writings as possible in introducing the matters in my materials. I hope to serve as one who inspires direction in the practitioner so they can go on to discover greater teachers and professionals that will build on this fundamental foundation. Find the authorities and synthesize a wholehearted and holistic concept, perception and belief that will not drive your practices but rather inspire them to evolve, grow and prosper. My efforts are born of those who are more experienced and knowledgable than I. I hope you find that path! See the bibliography I provide for an initial list of experts, professionals and masters of the subjects.
On Bushido - Part II
On Budo and Bushido
Bushido, A False Sense of Understanding
It would have been nice if the code actually existed during the times of the Samurai but in reality, according to current sources which can change, it was merely a "by word of mouth" passed along at the convenience of the Samurai. It was not a rigid code but one of "flexibility" where the Samurai or military noble warrior could "adjust" it to fit what was perceived at the time as "just warfare" which was open to interpretations at the moment along with the dictates of the Emperor and Shogun, etc. I might add according to the sources extended into WWII.
It was not really a set code of ethics or martial ethics but something that was loosely used where it become subject to corruptions as indicated above and was actually "vague and fluid" depending on any number of ideologies and influences due to perceived level in society and/or nobility, etc.
In reality the code was developed and written by a number of Japanese authors over a period of centuries which at the moment actually served that moment in times current strategic and "political" goals of whomever was in power.
So, in my view if it was not actually written in any concrete form and that form was not available to any of us today we have no real clue as to its validity and use. It was not until Inazo Nitobe wrote his view of it in 1899, i.e. 1900's :-), that it become known and/or accepted by the Japanese and even then because it was written by someone who was not nor had any nobility or warrior experience plus from a religious view that was not readily accepted at the moment was only accepted by the military because they could use it to suit their purposes of uniting Japan and justify the conscription of its people to benefit their actions opening WWII.
Now, to me this smacks of subversion of a code that could have provided ideals of acceptable societal behavior both military and civilian. Even tho our intent in today's martial systems is to use such a code to do just this its historical basis and beliefs are inaccurate to say the least. This does not mean that it cannot still be used to benefit but to believe that this is due to some belief in the nobility of Samurai warriors would be "just plain wrong."
This misconception has created a belief and view of Samurai that only can be exemplified in "fictional characterizations" vs. "reality." As with a lot of historical views it is the victorious who tend to write it with a slant toward their needs, beliefs, etc. so it will live on and propagate through our instruction of the martial arts. It is a glorious and exciting view unsubstantiated by history but what the heck, "It is just so cool!"
Please note the title of the article, i.e. emphasizing "Deceit." Also, it must be noted the basis of the article is referencing the brutality of WWII in relation to Bushido as well as other writings such as the "Hagakure." This post hopefully will inspire the reader to view and read the entire article. Who wants their hero's shot down, not me!
Sources:
Bushido: The Valor of Deceit written and posted on the "military history online" web site and written by Holly Senatore [it should be noted that this post is not endorsed nor validated by Ms. Senatore but merely my interpretations as to the content I read in her article.
Bushido: The Seven Virtues of the Samurai
義 - Gi - Rectitude (Right Decisions)
勇 - Yu - Courage
仁 - Jin - Benevolence
礼 - Rei - Respect
誠 - Makoto - Honesty
名誉 - Meiyo - Honor
尽忠 - Chugi - Loyalty
First, the bushido code most of westerners have been exposed to is one written by a Japanese who had not been an actual samurai, i.e. the dual sword wielding kind who we would consider Musashi like. I am not a "koryu" practitioner nor am I any expert on this other than my understandings and perceptions as a westerner.
Today I read a group of posts on "honor." Some spoke directly from an interpretation of honor or Meiyo as to the bushido virtues while others spoke of the military, etc. All from their personal exposure and perceptions - like mine. I would ask, who's honor? Who's interpretation? Who's perceptions?
I can speak from a military view as a Marine. I can also speak toward it some what as a martial artists, i.e. karate-jutsu-do of Okinawa. I can also speak from my views as a person influenced by all the above. To a point ......
I even created my own code for me. The real trick as with all things of martial origins is to actually "live" the code not just know the code. Then where does this code enter into the picture when your confronted with violence? Would your belief in this "code" open you to damage or would you then subvert that code by dropping it off at the front door in return for "permission" to do what is required to remove damage and reach safety?
Another view, does the code cover things like social and anti-social violence and what they entails, i.e. damage or even death, arrest and prosecution, civil suits, medical bills, disabilities, etc.?
Is this code merely a selling point or some rhetoric that allows you to sound cool to those not in the know? If you feel a need to adapt a code then using these as a source to begin may be beneficial but remember that the code must be "today's code," not some ancient code of feudal samurai that may or may not apply to today's societal bindings. Just because you can recite them or have them read to you in training does not make one a samurai or one of the code, the seven virtues of the samurai, Bushido.
Martial Art?
Butoku (Martial Virtue)
Blog Article/Post Caveat (Read First Please: Click the Link)
Currently, martial virtue is defined as, “To train with only the thought of being able to finish and not with the thought of progressing.”
A concept of an old master of Okinawan karate, “Your fingers and the tips of your toes must be like arrows, your arms must be like iron. You have to think that if you kick, you try to kick the enemy dead. If you punch, you must thrust to kill. If you strike, then you strike to kill the enemy [Ikken Hissatsu].”
It has also been stated, “Martial Virtues explores the place of the martial arts in the development of moral character. ... “
As well as, “Martial Virtues scrutinizes such qualities as courage, wisdom, justice and benevolence in turn, employing the lessons of modern psychology to understand how these virtues can be cultivated within ourselves and others.”
The dictionary says, in general:
- Virtue: behavior showing high moral standards.
- Martial: of or appropriate to war; warlike.
Kind of an oxymoron phrase, martial virtue, I.e., the idea of developing high moral values in applying warlike behaviors.
“Martial arts are codified systems and traditions of combat practiced for a number of reasons such as self-defense; military and law enforcement applications; competition; physical, mental, and spiritual development; entertainment; and the preservation of a nation's intangible cultural heritage.” - unknown
“Although the term martial art has become associated with the fighting arts of East Asia, it originally referred to the combat systems of Europe as early as the 1550s. The term is derived from Latin and means ‘arts of Mars’, the Roman god of war.” - Unknown
Can one assume that the tenets of bushido provide the fundamental principles of martial virtue? [Rectitude 義, Courage 勇, Benevolence 仁, Respect 礼(禮), Honour 名誉, Honesty 誠, and Loyalty 忠実.]
Bushidō (武士道, "the way of the warrior") is a moral code concerning samurai attitudes, behavior and lifestyle.
Bushi Katagi (武士気質, literally 'warrior temperament'). The consistent ideal is martial spirit, including athletic, military skills and valor: fearlessness toward the enemy in battle.
- Rectitude: morally correct behavior or thinking; righteousness.
- Courage: the ability to do something that frightens one; strength in the face of pain or grief.
- Benevolence: well meaning and kindly.
- Respect: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements; due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others.
- Honor: high respect; great esteem; adherence to what is right or to a conventional standard of conduct.
- Honesty: free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere.
- Loyalty: giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.
Note: I utilized a check mark in lieu of numbers because numbering tends to suggest and influence the way a person perceives, interprets and follows when presented so check marks.
Modern Martial Virtues
What makes a martial artist virtuous and why does it even matter? Yes, as all martial artists already know, it isn’t just about those virtues found in the bushido tenets but something else altogether.
When should they be taught and how do we, as Sensei, judge the practitioner? What authority do Sensei have that gives them the responsibility and privileges that speak for that community as well as the social structure in which each person lives?
These questions, and more, are what I will try to convey to the reader stressing their importance before a person chooses to follow the path, the martial way.
I plan on using this bushido tenets we are familiar with but present them in a way more appropriate to modern times.
These are presented in a form that one can chunk into learnable and memorable terms to better encode them into our minds or memories. Repeating them over time solidifies them into a form that remains, mostly, intact.
- Rectitude: morally correct behavior or thinking; righteousness.
- utterly dependent on culture, beliefs and the social fabric in which an individual lives, works and plays.
- Influenced a great deal from the social fabric of family, friends and acquaintances while also influenced by ’others’ as to how they perceive those cultures, beliefs and clan or tribal survival rules, etc.
- The overall character and personality of the person as well as how they are influenced by dojo-members, especially sensei and senpai, all contribute to how one applies their skills whether it be sport, defense (actual and legal) and philosophical.
- It is the product of such things that build the foundation on which one acts morally be it in thinking, be it in their behavior.
- Righteousness is that double edged sword one must be wary and aware of simply as it pertains to themselves and their perceptions of others righteousness - all of which may or may not be the same.
- Courage: the ability to do something that frightens one; strength in the face of pain or grief.
- Life itself be it involving violence or some lessor form that falls to the survival instincts of flight-or-fight.
- Fear is that state of mind one must control rather than ignoring or trying to suppress because fear is natural and necessary for our very survival. To control one’s fear is to use that fear as an enhancement rather than an obstacle or hindrance to action of mind, body and spirit.
- Pain and its resulting emotional state of mind are also tools of progress and movement rather than stagnation into a state of motionless stagnation.
- Benevolence: well meaning and kindly.
- Benevolence depends on oneself and their perceptions of others in the whole that is the scheme of things be they normal or abnormal.
- Be wary of how you perceive others for our natural tendency to bias that perception against our own way is dangerous, a double edged sword that, as you already know, cuts both ways.
- Respect: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements; due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others.
- It is critical to remember that respect is about that others abilities, qualities, and/or achievements, etc., as they understand it in their way, culture and beliefs for often, there are differences and we must respect and accept those differences even when they go directly against our way, cultures and beliefs.
- Honor: high respect; great esteem; adherence to what is right or to a conventional standard of conduct.
- Ask yourself, what is right and by the standards of whom?
- You can honor and have respect for others even in the face of dissonance or divergence of your standards and expectations.
- Make if about how that others honor, esteem and standards of conduct that best connect with yours even if by a tenuous thread and use that to make sure you ‘get along.’
- Honesty: free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere.
- Once again, it depends on the individual, clan or tribe and their respect, honor, expectations and standards because conflict and resulting violence often arise of of the differences and a lack of acceptance and willingness to connect and ‘get along.’
- Loyalty: giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.
- Loyalty is a win-win relationship that must not be blind or susceptible to human blinders due to biases and dissonances that come from belief, understanding and acceptance without exposure to violence or grave harm.
- One must NOT allow loyalty to circumvent or diverge from core beliefs and cultural/social necessities that mean survival of self, family and clan.
- Loyalty to ONESELF is always first and foremost to the individual and that is why finding and connection to other like minded others makes for a strong tribal social connectedness that is strong, resilient and progressive so one’s tribe, family and self survive in the best of times and in the absolute worst of times.
All this, and more, are what make for not just a virtuous person but a virtuous martial lifestyle especially as it involves the use of mind and skills through proper spirit to achieve goals that result in survival by avoidance first and violence as a last resort.
For reference and sources and professionals go here: Bibliography (Click the link)
Honor
He, rightly so, provides a story to show how "honor" has and still does get us, the male species, into heaps of trouble. I really liked his post today and it got me to thinking about "honor." What is it and why does this most important traits we males tend to fight over, go to war over and often die for? Do we truly know and understand what honor is and do we know when it became such an important aspect of human interaction - mostly male because few females get into a conflict over something that cannot be touched, felt or traded for anything of value.
Is it possible that we allow our monkey brains attach some perceived value on this word "honor" and if so who and what validates the meaning behind honor? Is this some carried over knights of the round table honor that has been built up into something it was never meant to be through the "urban legends, stories and fables" passed down and exaggerated over time?
How many lives have been lost over some perceived slight to one's honor? My recent studies on the Bushido and samurai connections toward the traditional martial arts through their culture and beliefs brings about the question, what is honor in the martial arts? Is it accurate or is it subverted depending on the who and the why of its conveyance through martial practices and training?
Maybe today's martial karate-ka is subject to influences that are unrealistic due to television, movies and other "stories" both presented as non-fictional and sometimes fictional. Once you get an answer to a question you end up with about a dozen more questions all requiring answers to achieve some semblance of truth and understanding that is reasonable and prudent in their application to a life that interacts with others in life.
Honor: Respect and esteem are tied to the meaning of honor which seems to be tied to that persons perceptions, cultural influences and overall belief systems that are both personal and driven by the requirements of the group, tribe and societal needs for survival. Honor is achieved by a person or thing whereby it is a credit earned from the same group, tribe and society driven by the requirements of their culture and beliefs. Honor is a privilege also bestowed in the same way.
One who has "honor" tends to be held is an exalted position in regards to others. This seems hierarchical in a sense as one who is in receipt of honor by others is thus in a higher and stronger position. This can and does promote jealousy, resentment and envy of the one in the honorable position that can either promote a desire to do better to reach that level or promote a desire to bring the one in a place of honor down of the pedestal ..... a double edged sword.
Honor can also be that something conferred upon a person as a distinction such as the "medal of honor" for bravery above and beyond or similar to a world achievement of honor such as "Gandhi Peace Prize or the International Peace Prize."
Honor is also "honor with regard to great respect." It is tied to "privilege" which in of itself causes a disturbance in the balance of interpersonal and group relations, i.e Jealousy, contempt and envy.
The one that I suspect leads to a good deal of conflict today is honor as it is tied to "respect" where one is shown respect or is required to display respect towards someone or something. It is that state of being honored where a group honor's another for some reason, act or perceived requirement.
It can be tied to a quality of being honorable but the requirements toward what is honorable is a bit muddy. A person of honor is also subject to the group, tribe and society with its culture and beliefs. Who says what makes an honorable person and is that set of requirements of an honorable nature.
The samurai code of honor which is tied to the bushido, the way of the warrior, is also filled with both acts of honor and acts of dishonorable actions. If you take the opportunity to dig deep you find that both sides of the coin of good and bad are filled by the Bushido that is part and parcel of the samurai culture. The wonderful thing of this code is that it still lives in the Japanese culture and it has some wonderful traits that fit all cultures across the world but also has some less than stellar traits that even the Japanese would and should consider losing.
Which to keep and which to lose is another question and only those who adapt the code can determine which is of value and which is not. Maybe honor is service to others without expectations.
In closing I don't come to any conclusions as to what honor is but would like to say for martial karate honor is that trait that allows the practitioner to achieve a level of enlightenment that promotes peace and non-conflict interactions with all peoples and the details of that can determine what it takes to have and hold "honor."
p.s. Oh, by the way, a fight may begin under the heading of "honor" but the actual tactics used will have nothing to do with honor or right or "FAIR." In that light the fight has nothing to do with honor either, it is simply monkey brain stupidity driving you into a "mess."
Hey, Tough Guy!
So, ... you think you're a tough guy. Maybe you are and regardless, you will find the following of great interest and benefit to your image as a, "Tough Guy!"
The “tough guy” image often conjures up a sense of resilience, strength, and independence. However, when this image is coupled with good character, strong personality, and honor, it represents an ideal of integrity and responsibility. Below are some key positive traits of a tough guy with good character, along with references from philosophy, martial arts, literature, and history.
1. Integrity and Honor
A tough guy of good character is not just physically strong but also morally upright. His word is his bond, and he lives by a code of honor, much like the Bushido code followed by the samurai (Nitobe, Bushido: The Soul of Japan, 1899). He does not betray his values for personal gain and stands firm in his beliefs, even in adversity.
“Without integrity, nothing works.” – Werner Erhard
2. Self-Discipline and Control
True strength lies not in uncontrolled aggression but in self-discipline. This aligns with the martial arts principle of Fudoshin (不動心), or “immovable mind,” where a warrior remains calm and composed under pressure (Draeger & Smith, Comprehensive Asian Fighting Arts, 1980). A tough man who cannot control his emotions is not truly strong; rather, his discipline defines his power.
“It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor.” – Seneca
3. Courage and Bravery
Courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to act in spite of it. This aligns with the Stoic philosophy of Memento Mori (knowing death is inevitable and still living with purpose) (Marcus Aurelius, Meditations). The tough guy does not run from danger or responsibility but faces life head-on.
“A knight is sworn to valor. His heart knows only virtue. His blade defends the helpless. His might upholds the weak. His word speaks only truth. His wrath undoes the wicked.” – Code of Chivalry
4. Loyalty and Protectiveness
A tough guy of good character does not seek fights for ego but will fiercely defend those he loves. This mirrors the role of the guardian in both warrior traditions and leadership (Plato, Republic). Whether a family man, mentor, or protector, he is someone others can rely on in times of need.
“A superior man is modest in his speech but exceeds in his actions.” – Confucius
5. Humility and Quiet Confidence
A true warrior does not boast about his toughness but carries himself with a quiet strength. This aligns with the concept of Shibui (渋い) in Japanese aesthetics—elegance through subtlety and depth (Hume, Japanese Aesthetics and Culture, 1995).
“The oak fought the wind and was broken, the willow bent when it must and survived.” – Robert Jordan, The Fires of Heaven
6. Adaptability and Mental Toughness
The truly strong man is adaptable, able to endure hardship without losing his resolve. This aligns with Kishi Kaisei (起死回生), the Japanese term meaning “to revive from the brink of death,” which speaks to the ability to turn failure into success through perseverance (Cleary, The Japanese Art of War, 1991).
“Do not pray for an easy life; pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.” – Bruce Lee
7. Emotional Control and Compassion
A tough guy who lacks compassion is simply a brute. The best warriors understand the balance of hardness and softness, akin to the Yin/Yang philosophy in martial arts (Tokitsu, The Inner Art of Karate, 2010). He can be fierce when needed but is also capable of deep kindness.
“A warrior is not about perfection, victory, or invulnerability. He is about absolute vulnerability.” – Dan Millman, Way of the Peaceful Warrior
8. Resilience and Perseverance
Life will test him, but he does not break. This resilience is embodied in Gaman (我慢), a Japanese term meaning endurance through hardship with dignity (Hurst, Armed Martial Arts of Japan, 1998). He pushes forward, no matter the obstacle.
“Fall seven times, stand up eight.” – Japanese Proverb
9. Wisdom and Learning
A tough man is not just physically strong but also wise. He is constantly seeking knowledge and understanding, embodying the philosophy of Kaizen (改善), or continuous improvement (Imai, Kaizen: The Key to Japan’s Competitive Success, 1986).
“A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool.” – Shakespeare
10. Independence and Self-Reliance
He does not wait for others to save him or make decisions for him. He understands the power of Isshin (一心)—wholehearted commitment to his path (Suzuki, Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind, 1970).
“We do not rise to the level of our expectations; we fall to the level of our training.” – Archilochus
Conclusion
The ideal “tough guy” is not just a fighter but a man of depth, wisdom, and honor. He is resilient yet compassionate, disciplined yet adaptable, strong yet humble. His toughness is not just about physical prowess but about character—the ability to do what is right, even when it is hard.


